Friday, February 14, 2014

Preparing A Loved One For Nursing Care

By Kristana Jenson


For many people, at some point in their life they will need extra support in order to get the most out of day-to-day life. This might mean that they will need to move out of their home and into an assisted living facility or even a nursing home. At first, this can seem like the end of all independence and enjoyment of life, but there are certainly advantages to leaving your home and letting others help you with some of life's daily tasks and chores.

In some cases, a medical emergency is what triggers the need to seek out nursing home care. A bad fall or a stroke or other medical condition might require around-the-clock nursing care, and so finding a nursing home facility is an essential way to ensure that your loved one is safe and secure. In addition, nursing homes offer rehabilitative services, as well, which can certainly help improve quality of life.

Declining health conditions and not a sudden medical event also can be the catalyst for looking into a nursing home facility. If your loved one needs help with all personal needs, as well as a severe medical issue or issues, then it is probably time to think about either in-home nursing care or a nursing home. The first option allows the person to stay in their own home or your home, but the second option offers care plus the added benefits of a more social situation. This might be more suitable for your loved one, especially if they live alone and have little family nearby.

The selection of a nursing home is easier if you use the services of a company that specializes in matching people to suitable housing situations. CarePlacement.com, for example, has pre-screened and studied hundreds of facilities and can match your loved one with the type of facility that best meets all of his or her needs. This might be some type of assisted living community or a boarding home if their medical needs are low or a nursing facility or in-home nursing care if needed. In-home care can be a great option for someone who lives with a spouse or their child, but if your loved one lives alone, just having a nurse for companionship might not be enough. A nursing home can provide more social opportunities, which might be advantageous.

Visit each facility personally and bring your loved one along if it is at all possible, as they should be able to help find the most comfortable place for them. Sometimes, if your loved one is hospitalized or too ill, this simply is not an option. At any rate, it is best to find a home that is close to friends and family. If you can also find a facility where friends already are living, this is a huge help in lessening the anxiety of such a move.

One part of the process that is always difficult is the loss of possessions. Obviously, you cannot move a household of belongings and furnishings into a nursing home room. You can, however, move a few treasured items into the room. Bring their favorite clothes, plenty of great family photographs and perhaps a favorite chair and some other mementos.

One of the most important things you can do after the move has been made is to visit regularly. Set up a weekly dinner engagement and get friends and family to schedule regular visits as well. If it is at all possible, take your loved one to places outside of the nursing home. Sometimes because of medical problems this isn't applicable, but if your family member can get out for awhile, this can be very beneficial. Go pick them up and take them to a nice restaurant or plan a big family picnic at the park. Take them shopping or out to a beauty salon. If they are unable to travel, simply come and enjoy dinner with them at the home or take part in one of the social activities. When you cannot visit, make phone calls and send letters. These are far more personal than emails, and you can include photographs and drawings from grandchildren, tangible items that they can enjoy and share with other residents.




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